An unexpected gift for Valentines.
Jay returns to the bathroom wearing Em's pyjamas laughing and singing: "I'm St. Nicolaus!"
We read a story at bedtime about a game a little girl and her daddy play "if I were you...". We turn-off the light and I turn to Jay: "Would you want to be me? I would love to be you....!" "No!" she says. Then I hear Em's voice coming from her room: "You know who I'd want to be? Me. I like who I am, what I do and how I do it. And if I do something wrong, I know I can change that."